Be the change by Believing in Yourself
“Man often becomes what he believes himself to be. If I keep on saying to myself that I cannot do a certain thing, it is possible that I may end by really becoming incapable of doing it. On the contrary, if I have the belief that I can do it, I will surely acquire the capacity to do it, even though I may not have it at the beginning.” Mahatma Gandhi
In life, when we don’t believe in ourselves, we usually rely on someone else to believe in us which leads to approval from others instead of using your own intuition and strength in believing in yourself. It’s essential to believe and love ourselves first and also surround ourselves with people and friends that will lift us up with inspiration, positivity and love.
When we look at ourselves, who do we see?
Do we see a confident, self-sufficient person?
Do we see ourselves as not worthy, victimized, and incapable?
How we see ourselves is how we present ourselves to the world. Being confident is a key element. Be confident in yourself, and in what you do, in who you are and in what you say. Walk tall, with elegance and determination knowing that you are your own best friend. Be aware of our self image and making the necessary changes in order to be your best self. By being confident and believing in yourself, you will be a people magnet for they will gravitate themselves to you.
You ask how do I become confident?
Believing in yourself is not a technique; it is an attitude. Everyone struggles with self-doubt from time to time, and awareness is the first step to overcoming this pervasive problem. Once you are aware, you can come up with a strategy to reassure yourself that you are exactly where you belong. Let go of your ego and strive to become more fully and authentically yourself, and these feelings will slowly dissipate. Immediately drop any neediness for love, acceptance and approval from others and replace it with self-love.
You start by believing and respecting yourself – taking the time to take care of yourself by eating healthy, exercising, spending time with yourself, practicing daily affirmations (You deserve all the amazing things in your life. You truly ARE worthy!) and trusting yourself in your life decisions. If you live right and do the right thing every day, then life will flow even through the bumps that we may encounter…….”I am open and receptive to all the good and abundance in the Universe.”
Be the change…… by trusting and believing in yourself and the person you are becoming so you can share this with the world. BE YOU…..
Remember, may the possibilities of today excite us all!